Each child is an incomparable work wonders

 Parents should read it

read this book before you parents think your child is not born, you are your child's expectations and what is fantasy.

now, your child came to your side,Discount UGG boots, and grew up, to bring you a lot of anguish and joy.

the front of the real expectations of children and former children in the comparison, is not there will be some sense of loss, of which there is no reason to imagine the reality of course is good, but where is the problem?

In fact, each child is a very subtle work, parents look at it every day, but very few can read.

• British psychologist Tony Buzan door said: Dr. to be good, and, to 3 years or 4 years old, he is an expert in the language. looking forward to the development of genius.

great scientist Albert Einstein is well known, 4 years old, he will say something vague words, and seen him say he was Einstein, after school teacher who asserted that he will certainly not amount to anything.

but his parents did not think so, because the teachers did not abandon the thesis that ignorance of this the twentieth century created the greatest scientific giants.

scientific research shows that: among children 0-14 years old, mentally handicapped children accounted for only 1.07%, while the gifted children were more than 0.03%. 98.9% of the children that there is no mental problems, but love does not love learning science, will not learn science, hard work is not hard question.

diversity from the potential point of view, every child is a genius. Only if we believe that, we may bring up a genius. not a genius, a genius that he is a child, also have higher self-expectations, the greater the ideal, greater confidence, even if ultimately there can be a genius to show what they can play to their fullest potential. >
but this is not so, due to the deviation of understanding and teaching methods of the deviation from the child's potential has not been due mostly to play. Japanese educators Suzuki had a saying: Do not destroy their love and then children. Ability to bud a child, sometimes by hand Put out of their parents. Respect the child's aspirations, interests, psychological characteristics, needs,UGG boots clearanc, at any time, we should pay attention to the principles.

competition in the future is the child, but also the parents of the competition, if we believe that the child, respect for children, encourage children, then they will be returned to us a miracle.

1, enjoy your eyes with love child

the core of the relationship between parents and children what is, no doubt, of course, love. Look at the child's eyes look to the streets of her mother,UGG shoes, even if the cold weather again, you will feel warm.

grew up watching their children, parents growing sense of pride and happiness. Followed by a conflict between parents and children and long contest. What is destroyed in the end of this pure love, what the parents let the children take it anymore

parental love is the source of a The lack of tolerance and broad. Do not be utilitarian

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love a father, since his daughter was born later to a very, very happy, elf-like girl attracted the praise of countless people around, walking Where would become a the.

However, the outbreak did not wait for happiness, the pride of the father to be a hit.

daughter one day about two years old, my father took her to a children's play park. Perhaps because she does not often go to those places, so her performance was weak. On a trampoline, a little more than two months, the girl she danced happily, and she sat gingerly next. Father holds her in the middle and the rhythm of her dancing with the others jump or two to fall, and immediately cry loud. Father repeatedly encouraged her to jump, but failed.

happily watching the children play around, watching the parents look to their eyes, sense of disappointment in the father's heart began to grow faint and even some anger.

father wanted to put it another way, took her daughter to a higher hold on the slippery slide, sliding down to her, but the girl was caught doing the slide rails, Bu Songshou any case, while cry I said afraid.

finally broke the father's anger, and he carried her to the ground and let her play that ball, Trojan horses and the like, found himself a place to sit down, afar off her. At this point look to the eyes of a child is no longer an innocent love. All this not only because her

if later, no other girl her beautiful, results are not others, it's enough to test into prestigious universities ... ... that parents no longer love her? We love children because they are able to satisfy our vanity it? Once utilitarian love the color, let parents and children lost their best side.

look of love is the best education

Yami Winchester as the famous Italian writer, love. education is not in love with love, it becomes a sewage pond, no matter whether any of your square, round worth mentioning, is always just an empty run away. both eyes and children with love, docking, then the child will grow into towering trees.

93-year-old Japanese pediatrician, Mr. Naito Shichiro life, but also a famous educator.

One day, a mother brought her two year old boy, a doctor came to see Mr. Naito. Mother says the child drank a liter of milk can in one breath, excessive drinking milk because milk is suffering from psoriasis, skin irritation, tearing sleep, restless manner. Mom spent a lot of ways to prevent children, but to no avail.

cause is very clear and very simple method of treatment - the child to stop drinking milk. Mr. Naito

calmly off the robes, and kneeling in front of the boy, looked at each other's eyes.



boy nodded.

Mr. Naito said, still staring at him: look, and face torsional side. So apparently my mother has said, will not work.

Mr. Naito is not discouraged. He followed the child to squat in front of the body, said:

Finally,UGG boots cheap, the boy nodded her head slightly.

miracle then happened. Boy went home and drink milk, eczema symptoms quickly disappeared. Year and a half later, his mother, that you can drink some milk, and can be the boy said:

This time, Mr. Naito is still looked at the boy's eyes, smiled and said:

Mr. Naito concluded by it: even if it is only two years old child, as long as he understood the reason, you can control yourself. So he made a resounding slogan:

children in our educational process, like him with some love eyes, eyes that will stimulate their heart is powerful. Whether the child did something wrong, no matter how bad the child's performance, we have more tolerance. Very often, the God who gave us the opportunity to re-plastic, as long as you love the look and docking each child, this harmony will be relaxed and happy in your life flash.

2, children are angels sent by God to us

have several year-old will write, the teacher of his comment was: academic mess, once the teacher asked him 1 + 2 equal? His answer is 3, see teachers pound the table, they said that 2. Students say: Name it?

when a child in primary school because of poor grades did not get the diploma, read the first day, because he failed math and had to make-up.

father of a child has been complaining is an idiot, in everybody's eyes, he is no future for students, the College of Arts, three also test does not go in, his uncle said in despair:

a child often been reprimanded by his father:

If you are the

They are:

the greatest physicist Albert Einstein.

hailed as the greatest in human history, scientists in Newton.

19 century Romantic poets Byron representative.

the great British novelist Sir Walter Scott. A famous Chinese mathematician Hua.

great sculptor Rodin.

the great biologist Charles Darwin, founder of biological evolution.

of these does not get the Ben Xiaohai, everyone has made remarkable achievements, if their parents just because the performance of their temporary conclusion, then, how many humans will lose a great achievement.

so that every child is an angel God sent to us. We believe that every child in the heart will be successful, but in different ways, at different times, areas of difference in terminology.

Tao has warned: They have shown a different childhood characteristics, but this does not prevent them from becoming the creators of the history of mankind.

Everyone has different talents

first. We must acknowledge each person different. Not only the body, looks, sounds different, have different interests and personalities, there are differences in the ability of each person, such as I am good at physics and chemistry, you're good at literary writing, he is good at music, other people do cook - each Director, Fido. Harvard University, At least seven people in the intelligence division of: mathematics, logic, language, music, spatial thinking, movement, there are two mutual understanding between people, how to achieve the desired and the treatment of the fear and obstacles in life.

Secondly, we have to admit to any kind are important, regardless of primary and secondary, are equal. If a person outstanding musical talent, he can be a musician, or when the music teacher, etc.; if the painting talented, he can become a painter, or do industrial design; If a person has talent in cooking, he can do a good cook.

this world is because of various talented people, all walks of life was thriving, our life colorful. If all people are a scientist, no music, painting, and no one cooks, when the cleaners, the world will not bear to live.

If we examine their own children, you will be pleasantly surprised to find that your child who has many benefits, perhaps mischievous and love to your children, no discipline, but he likes to work and helpful; Your child may not prominent academic, but he likes to paint, and imaginative works; Maybe he see people shy, do not speak fluently, but his love of reading, wide range of knowledge than the children of the same age ... ...

Sadly, most parents ignore the children themselves of modern existence of individual differences, blind to the children ask for good results, as long as the kids say bad grades too fun, not hard. Few parents to observe children to learn the real reason for bad. If parents with the child's own potential, to find the appropriate points of interest, to stimulate their enthusiasm for learning knowledge, that is no problem to get good grades. Instead, they are just learning for a mechanical boring task, hard to speak of.

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measured more than a ruler, the child will be more of a chance to grow. Although we can not give an evaluation of each standard can be set, but parents must be clear mind, test scores, only one aspect of the situation that the child, the child can not explain the overall situation, we give the child time and opportunity to show their . Must not be killed by a stick, premature conclusions.

a bit rich educational wisdom of the teacher, to encourage some students with learning difficulties, the use of the birthday child the opportunity for them to talk about a When trees and plants to settle down. They are content. Lily white flowers happy for her, red roses for her flowers and joy, violet happy, although she shyly hid himself, but always be those who find her, praise her fragrance. Daisy is the flower of happiness, because every child in the world love her.

trees and plants to choose for themselves at home. Oak, said: In the sunny fields.

However, there is a small plant, neither the fragrance of violets, daisies did not like being a child favorite. She can not flower, she was too shy to make any demands.

day, she heard the mountain, said: willing to protect them anyway?





small European heather tremble with excitement, Finally, she whispered softly: Mountains on the other plants, said proudly: br> The very next day, suddenly grow many small European heather flowers, and since then she has been open to this day.

as the child's parents, the child will one day like to believe the story of Europe as heather, bloom the beautiful flowers.